opinions are like a**holes...

every ones got one.

i was thinking yesterday about how many opinions i get - virtually about everything, and it amazes me because i seldom find myself asking questions to anyone but those i hold extremely dear. another thought i had was how detrimental a bad opinion can be on ones life. people always think that they're doing good by giving advice and "lending a helping hand" but it all comes from a bias point of view! i cant count the times I've trusted a source and got really hurtful words spoken to me, and on a extremely personal level... thinking it would change my life! im a very open person and have a soft heart (like most girls do) but im finding that some will take advantage of those qualities and just trample on your own idea about how your life should be lived! i know i make mistakes, i know i have a hard time choosing between two paths, and i know that confidence in myself isnt my strong suit right now. But i also know that i can see whats best for me and i will not buckle to just any opinion any more. if i want it, i will ask for it, and if i dont - and you still give it to me, i'll smack your mouth.

plus, my sister is the only person i truly listen to!